Oh wow.....

So the bulk of the move is done. I have an amazing boyfriend, and wonderful friends.

I guess I'll start from the beginning, but make an effort to keep it short. Hahaha, I know, yea right....

Anyways, so got off work Friday night. Did as much last minute packing as I could, and picked up Niceguy from work. We have been avoiding Midas as all he seems to do is verbally attack me, and create mass drama. So instead of my helping him on Saturday, his Dad had planned to. His plan, as he'd told me, was to pick up the U-Haul, and move move move. Niceguy and I had planned to be at the apartment around 8pm to finish the packing, do some cleaning, and then relax the rest of the night while we have a going away party for Niceguy's roommate.

So Friday night, I texted Midas to confirm his plan was still in place, and all was good. He tells me the soonest he can get the U-Haul truck is 2pm. Uh.... Well that will rush things, but he says he can do it, or be very close to it. Alrighty. So Saturday morning comes, and Niceguy and I are anxious to get the day going with his roommate. We pick up necessities and some dinner, and get back to the apartment for the party. At 6pm, I texted Midas to confirm everything was still moving right along, and I'm told that Midas and his brilliant father decided, even though the rest of us were waiting on him to move out of my apartment, that they were going to move his Dad first. Therefore, they didn't even get to my apartment until after 6pm. AND, that they'd gotten a van instead of a truck.... Uh yea, 8pm.... Not happening.

I got the text at 10:30pm.... Too late at this point, since we had to be up at 6:30 to get things rolling and taking Niceguy's roomie to the airport. So we finished out the party and went to bed.

Next morning was a challenge. Niceguy is so wonderful though. I spent the entire day trying to keep things from stressing him out, and he did the same for me. The move was almost fun. Moving stuff around in his apartment, then frantically rushing over to mine to toss things in bags and boxes in preparation for the truck that was coming. (*Naturally Midas had left stuff in the apartment.*) My ex-roomie, and bestie, had conned her ex into loaning us a 16ft trailer and his truck. Not only did he loan it to us for cheap, he even came to help!

We didn't fill even half the trailer, and were done just after 2:30. 4 hours. To move almost ALL of my stuff. I was stunned to say the least. Bestie's ex left, and she stuck around to help me unpack a little and set up my bed. Niceguy passed out on the couch, and bestie left a short time after. We were done for the night, no more moving, done done done....

Went over Monday afternoon to pick up the cats and assess the damage. The apartment was trashed. Still quite a bit needed to be moved, thrown out, or tossed into storage. Midas' stuff in his room and the living room brought me pause, so I texted him. He let me know he'd handle it, and offered to help clean some too. Uh, he damn well better I thought. I haven't "lived" in that apartment since shortly after he moved in, and the MESS he left behind was AWFUL!

Cats moved in, apartment setup, and reasonably clean and organized, I'm ready to start moving more stuff out of my place, and started the cleaning process. Moved a load Tuesday, and two tonight. Picking stuff up on my lunch breaks, and bringing it over right after work to save some gas, as yet again, I'm broke. (*big surprise*)

Since it's been three days, I texted Midas to find out when he was "planning" to come clean and pick up the remainder of his crap. Notice the quotes? Yea.... I bet you can see where this is going.... I am now left with a gigantic broken chair, my old fish tank(I gifted to him), a bag of clothes, an old comforter, a broken lamp, and a horribly trashed apartment.

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I think about covers it.

He claims he has no transportation, and I sure as hell am not picking him up. I want nothing to do with him, especially after his last explosion. I asked if he was okay, and he went psycho on me. When I asked him to stop, he told me there was something wrong with me, and proceeded to follow me around the apartment for 30 minutes yelling at me. Uh, something wrong with me? Bestie got to hear the whole thing. Midas is loony.....

Anyways, if he wanted to help like he says he does, he would FIND a way to get there and back. I am so done with this mess. Done done done. I will clean it myself. I will find a way to dispose of his crap without breaking the law, and I will cut off complete contact with that man. Flying leap comes to mind....

So, I asked him to drop my keys off with Niceguy, and all should be done. Now I have 4 days to basically rebuild my apartment from the cat-litter, hair/dust ball, dirty dishes mess Midas left behind. I will probably need to buy a new vacuum and carpet cleaner after this.... Yes, it is THAT bad....

So that's the move up through right now. Just waiting for Niceguy to get off work, and we're off to make another run to my old place before I drop from exhaustion.

Work is good, stressful, but good. They keep telling us we should have done something, yet we were never educated to begin with. A little tired of the after-the-fact stuff, or last minute "didn't you know you needed to do this, and it's due in an hour?" I agreed to a deadline on my End of Month report, and was told two hours later about a process that takes a minimum of 4 hours for the experienced reps to do, and is REQUIRED in the report. awesome.......

Home life is awesome. Niceguy is wonderful, and keeps things so relaxed and calm. I can't remember feeling so at home with someone. He's teaching me the finer points of cooking, and I'm educating him on how easy it is to keep the house clean. lol I do love that man. *smile*

So yea, short right? I'm way too detailed for short updates. lol

Anyways, gotta get things rolling before I go pick up Niceguy. So hugs and kisses!

Love to all!